Lean in close, because I gotta tell you something. Something REAL. Something that might just blow your mind.

Are you tired of all the BS around relationships these days? Like, are you a guy who thinks twice before opening a door for a woman because she may retort,

"UGH, I CAN GET MY OWN DOOR BUDDY." 

Or a woman who "can't seem to find a good strong man?"

Incels, jaded independent women who grew up in the 2000s-- individuals are having less s3x, divorce rates are higher than ever...

Men struggling with dating? 🤔 Explore the REAL impact of #MeToo on masculinity, relationships, and gender dynamics. Plus, learn how to embrace masculine energy in a healthy way.

They say chivalry is dead. That men are afraid to be men. That the "old ways" are gone and the future is f*ckd. But honestly?

Mikaal and I, we're not buying it.

Buckle up, buttercup, because we're about to dive headfirst into the chaotic world of modern masculinity and the tangled mess of gender roles! Forget the polite conversations and sugar-coated truths – we're ripping off the bandaid and exposing the raw anxieties and challenges men face today.

The #MeToo movement shook the foundations, and we're not shying away from the tremors it left behind. We're talking about the minefield of dating and relationships, where fear and confusion reign supreme. We're calling out the outdated scripts that leave men feeling lost and unsure of their place in the world.

Men have lost the rites of passage – Mikaal introduces ways modern men are forging their own path and reclaiming true masculine energy. It's time to unleash the primal power within, not the toxic version society tries to shove down our throats. We're talking about the raw, untamed energy that drives us to create, to protect, to lead.

And let's not forget the pressure cooker that women are facing today. They're expected to be the boss babe, the nurturing partner, and everything in between. It's a recipe for disaster, and we're calling out the double standards that fuel the flames.

But hey, it's not all doom and gloom. We're also dishing out some real-world advice on how to build genuine connections, even in this crazy world. We're talking about how women can empower their partners to step up and lead, if that's what they crave.

So, if you're ready to ditch the safe space and embrace the brave chaos, grab a martini, crank up the music, and let's get this revolution started!"

I have been trying to get Mikaal on the show for over a year, the stars aligned, and I brought him a list of secret longings from our quarterly survey about "What secretly keeps you up at night about your life, business, s3x life, getting old..." and lemme tell you, this conversation was juicy, had me blushing, and gave me some really big peace about being a woman in 2024.

If you'd like to know...

• how to bring the spark back in your LTR

• wonder what troll hole all the good men are hiding in, or

• where are the women who aren't competing to out-man you and actually be nice to you...

...this episode is for you.

This is the conversation NO ONE else wants to have.

This is The Ruby Hour, and it's unlike anything you've ever heard.

Subscribe now, because the truth might just set you free. (But fair warning, it definitely won't be politically correct.)

I can't wait to get your "this triggered me" email...

Shelby ❤️

Mikaal is one of the most talented executive coaches I have ever had the pleasure of working with in the past decade.

Episode Takeaways

• The dynamics of masculinity and femininity are evolving.

• Men today feel uncertain about expressing their masculinity.

• Feminism has opened doors but also created new challenges for men.

• The concept of hypergamy influences dating dynamics.

• Many men are afraid to approach women due to societal pressures.

• Rites of passage for men have largely disappeared in modern culture.

• The absence of healthy masculine energy affects family structures.

• Men are often generalized as toxic, impacting their self-perception.

• The rise of technology has changed how relationships are formed.

• Understanding individual desires is crucial in modern relationships.

This conversation is empowering, uplifting, intimate, and vulnerable on both of our parts. My hope is that you or someone you love who may be going through a tough time of self-examination or loss may find a vein of courage and strength from this tender conversation.

Visit https://www.mikaalbates.com to see his latest offerings, workshops, and availability for 1:1 executive coaching. /\/\/\/

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